I imagine the tons of prayers sent your way helped, too. I asked God to help you do/say the things your wife needed to hear, and for your wife to do/say the things you needed.
I have absolutely ZERO doubt that people (including myself) praying for my situation is what caused it to move. I just didn't know you were one of them -- THANK YOU, WDID, that means more to me than you will ever know.