Don`t know your whole story breakaway-will catch up though when I get a chance. But I have to say that outofthefog excerpt was very interesting.And the outofthefog site very interesting for hose of us who suspect, or know, that we`re dealing with a partner who may have a personality disorder or mental illness.

Defnitely sounds like your partner has hit a moment of clarity! How good for you! Though I`m sure you`ve read the piece in outofthefog about hoovering where a PD sufferer can suck you back into enabling their bad behaviours and start the cycle of suffering all over again.

Keep your hard won changes for yourself! And thanks for your insights.