Seperated

[LitlHopeAlwys]

On Friday, I got a thank you for the mother's day flowers - sent to her work.
So here's how my weekend went. I got to get my son Fri night from parents house after they watched him for the day. We stayed there for dinner - by the time we got home he was a sleep. Friday afternoon the W had said that she would drop clothes off at the house Friday night for son for communion on Sat. No bag at house, when he got home. Called W - after she finally answered - took 30 mins to get in touch with her, she said that she couldn't find anything that she liked for him and was going to store in morning.
Asked her what she was doing - out bowling with a couple of friends - some people we used to bowl with together - told her have a fun night and don't drink too much and drive.
Off to bed for me.
Saturday comes around - The W brings by clothes for our son, I get him ready to go, and she starts getting changed in front of me. Made me feel uncomfortable, but had to resist any urges. I ask her how bowling was and she said it wasn't any fun, I asked what she meant, she said that it just wasn't the same. Not sure what she meant as I didn't want to press the issue.
Off to the Church in separate cars, half way through ceremony son gets thirsty, I forgot to bring anything. I bribe him for an ice cream shake after wards - if he behaves. W hears me tell him, so I ask her if she would like to go. First response was a no, then within 5 minutes, she says yes. Cool - baby steps?? Get to the ice cream store order shakes - figure we'll get in our own cars go separate ways - wrong W asks if we can sit in the truck to drink them? Ok - i don't mind.
Finish the shakes, W comes back to house to change and put away clothes she left out - and then before leaving she says to me - "Remember when you asked when I stopped loving you a few weeks ago?" I answered yes, she says I never answered, I told her I don't expect her to. She tells me she never stopped loving me, and that she feels like I never loved her or showed her any love. I apologized to her told her she was right and I then said I do love you, always have and always will.
She left for the day - and I spent quality time with my son.
Dropped him off on Sunday - she wanted him for mother's day, which our son made her a card, and we picked up flowers for him to give her.
I dropped him off, told her to have a great day, hugged her and was on my way.
Sent her a text Sunday night to have a good night,

Now on today, called her at work, asked if she wanted anything for lunch from deli - she brought lunch with her. Then she started on a rant how everything is different. I said to her I don't understand - what's different - she answered everything - she said that the way my parents act when she drops off/picks up son - i offered to do it for her if she felt uncomfortable.
She said everything is different between us, that we are getting a D, I answered to her I understand that's what you want, but I am doing my best to change myself and be the person that she wants to have in her life and save this marriage. She just told me to leave her alone, and that she will get a restraining order.
Communication was left off between us with me just sending her and email :

I'm sorry that things feel different for you, I don't think that my parents are trying to make anything feel differnet.
I know I am trying to change to be the person that you want in your life - the person that you wish you had married.
I also know that I do love you - and yeah I see know that i should've been more involved in everything - which I regret that I was not.
Remember Sat. when you said that you never stopped loving me - It was nice to hear that - just made everything more confusing for me - if you never stopped then what is going on between us? Why are we doing this?
You know I love you - and unfortunately it has taken this separation for me to see the errors in my ways - I know things won't/can't change over night, but i do want things to change.
I want to be the one who helps you live out your dreams and goals, and to spend my time showing you that I can be the one that can do that.

I just don't understand how we can go from having a good time on Saturday, to you not talking to me today? If you could give me a little insight into that I would really appreciate it.

You know that I'm not looking for a fight, not looking to even argue with you, all I want to do is reopen the lines of communication between us, in the hopes of bringing your dreams to a reality.

I just feel so lost and not sure what is going on anymore, it seems like when the good times between us come out - it becomes a nightmare after wards.

Anybody have any advise that you can offer as to what is going on through her mind?