Dianes Roller Coaster Ride continued... lol

[bob48]

I know exactly what your husband means - or at least i think I do. But does he have to START IT? Can you start IT?

I have felt that way in the past about my wife. It just seemed so hard to get things going in a natural comfortable manner. I told her that if she wanted sex, she would have to initiate it. And when she got desperate enough she did.

Fortunately, we broke through all of that and are soaring. But I can still remember those days and having no idea what to do about it but to accept it.

bob

He also mentioned that now he " doesn't know how to start IT " anymore........... hmmmmmmmmmmm

Not sure what anyone else would think here , but I think that's a cop out. He's 39 years old, I mean really.