The day started as "normal" in my situation.

My wife sent me a couple of emails (FYI/tactical stuff related to the kids). I waited about an hour before I answered the one email where she asked a question.

It's now 3 weeks since she's moved out.

So now that I've spent sometime with her, hopefully enjoying being with me and the boys, I'm going back to Dark/Dim again. I expect to see her on Weds for my 3 year old's baseball game so I'll have be be ready for that.

It's really hard to see if there's a light at the end of this tunnel.....


Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13