I told her I am going to have to run things tighter as I don't have a fall back plan. I am going to have to save like crazy and watch my budget carefully so I have money should the worst happen. I told her my only fall back plan is a terrible one. And that is if I lose my job, can't get another one and can't pay my rent, I will have to end up back in Florida away from my kids and that would be horrible.
She doesn't care about me. So I have to care about me and do whats best for me right now. And that may mean that my kids are not in the best schools right now. She said its my fault I am in a contracting position. And I agreed and said that yes, I fell apart with this whole D situation. But I am trying to get back to stability. Kevin
Blah Blah Blah! Enough already!!!! Your right Kev, She doesn't care about you. You know why? Because you keep on controling her with your pathetic guilt trips. Stop telling her your problems. What has everyone been telling you??? Women aren't attracted to weak, whiney men. Stop telling her how weak you are and show her how strong you are. Stop telling her anything other then you are handling your stuff and the kids will be well provided for. All you need to ever say to her is "You did what you had to do and I am doing what I had to do. She doesnt respect you. You need to respect yourself first. You do that by gaining back CONTROL of your life. When people treat you bad that's their stuff.. how you react is yours. All you can CONTROL is YOU and how you react to other people. How are you gaining back CONTROL of your life??? Get it through your co-dependent mind. YOU DONT NEED HER APPROVALLLLLLLLL!!!!! SHE'S NOT YOUR MOMMY!!! What woman wants to b in a R w their mommy??!! Asking her approval where to live??? Seriously??? Do you still ask her what you should wear???? If you can go potty??? BE A MAN once and for all. Show your daughters your strength. Lead by example. NOTTTTBLAH BLAH BLAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!! ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ!!!!
That was a shovel. Forget the 2 x 4 it wasn't working. And it was a shovel because you can use it to help you dig your own grave that you have been digging.
Now get out there and man up!!! Like someone else said on here get busy living or get busy dying!!! It's a choice. Everythings a choice...
