She seems to be getting angrier by the day. I really feel like I should be handling this better after almost 5 months.
She's getting angrier because she is now processing TONS of emotions...she's getting it out. She has to do it. She may have a lot to deal with, as far as her hurt goes. She may continue to get even angrier. I know. I've been dealing with increasing anger on her part for some time now. There's nothing you can do about it...it's part of the healing process for her. Anything and everything you say or do will be wrong! So don't bother...just listen...and take it! Try to feel compassion for yourself and for her. You have to appreciate how she feels. Don't argue either! It hurts, I know! They need lots of time and lots of compassion to heal.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
