I love hearing about you and CEO - you don't stand any sh!t Maybe he was using a bit of transference. He was feeling insecure so projected it onto you (is that called transference??). Could you have asked him if he wanted to go for a drink after work instead of all the emails - obviously worded a lot better than that? That way you get to do your work and he gets to see your fabulousness... just a thought. The email interaction is quite interesting though, there are many layers to that one I feel
With H, it seems as though he just wants to keep the status quo - the not moving on the D issue and holding your hand. How do you think he would have reacted if you had pulled away. It is hard to know as he obviously wants your as a large part of his life but can't take that step further on or away. What did your DB coach suggest in your sitch - I can't remember now.
P.S - I forgot to give you back the choir music last time we met!
Maybe he was using a bit of transference. He was feeling insecure so projected it onto you (is that called transference??). Could you have asked him if he wanted to go for a drink after work instead of all the emails - obviously worded a lot better than that? That way you get to do your work and he gets to see your fabulousness... just a thought. The email interaction is quite interesting though, there are many layers to that one I feel 
