Hmmmm....now that you are not biting, maybe we should call him Yoyo-husband.
Seriously I'm proud of you for not biting. For real.
I see...he wants to reconcile HIS way?
Even if he fires her, or she quits...keep running. It's too easy for him to run back to her when things get "real" with you.
I really don't know what he could do to earn your trust at this point.
Believe me Theo I've considered all of these factors. He has proven time and time again to be a very untrustworthy person. If we were to reconcile it would be like walking on eggshells all of the time. That is not something I want. He still blames me for his straying. He actually told me that!
I continue to be "selfish" and find my own happiness. I'm in charge of my own life. Yes, I would like to eventually share my life with someone, but my H continues to show me that it cannot be him. I have so many good things going on in my life and I'm very thankful for them.
How is your life Theo? Inquiring minds want to know!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
