Setting Boundaries for MLC Alien H

[In Limbo]

One step forward and two steps back sometimes, but I do feel good about my actions this weekend.

Today I have learned that when he took the boys to shop for me for Mother's Day on Saturday, he also bought a purse and a watch that were not for me. I can only assume they are for OW. In addition to the hurt this creates, especially since our boys were with him when he made the purchase, I am again struggling with him spending our $ on OW. Not sure if I should just let it slide or if there is any way to bring it up.

Sometimes it just seems like every time I start to feel a little better about our chances, something hits me and knocks me back down. Any suggestions/thoughts?