talked to W just casual conversation then she wanted to talk about custod again...YAY!... I tell her we should wait to talk about it till when she gets home she says wants to talk about it now so we can come up with Ideas. I kept trying to aviod it but she kept bringing it up so i told her that a 50/50 custody arangement was not going to work because the judge wont sign off on that due to our careers. I told her that my idea was that i got amaya for the school year and that she got her summers, everyother weekend, every other holiday, spring break (this is when she starts school of course). She didnt agree to it of course and i told her that we needed to come up with some type of agreement because i didnt want to have to go to court and make matters worse between us. She says that if we go to court she is going to win cause she is the mother and im in the military... i just told her that i would do whatever it takes in court to do whats best for my daughter, she then said if i use her alcholism against her that i would regret it... I didnt tell her i would use anything against her but that i would do whatever it takes and that i didnt want it to have to come to that for D sake... Well she got off the phone crying i told her that my intentions in the conversation where not to upset her and i wish she hadnt taken it that way. Everything was said in a polite tone by both of us neither one of us actually got mad we just made our points and that was it no fighting or nothing. Later that night i get this text...
W: I thought long and hard about our conversation this morning, u threatened to do whatever it takes, so everything we agreed upon up until now, is off. U claim u dont want to hurt me anymore, but that is OBVIOUSLY not the case. I will have my lawyer soon.
