Thank you, kat, Doc, and Karen, for the Mother's Day wishes....I hope you all had good ones, too. It was a nice Mother's Day weekend. I spent it with my own family, my mom and dad, and my H's mom and dad. My H surprised me by getting me something he heard me talking about. \:\) My son made me a special gift, too. It was all very nice.

Friday, the egf and her bf came over with her kids. It also went well. I've done my part now. I'm going to distance myself like you all suggest, because it IS the healthiest for me and my family. I won't abandon her, but I won't initiate things with her either.

I got a hang up phone call on Saturday. It prompted me to do a simple search of court records. Sure enough, my OM has a temporary restraining order on him marked domestic violence. I can't believe that was the man I risked my marriage with. I'm not sure who got the order on him...could be a roomate, his ex, a new gf.....man, I was such an idiot.

My H feel asleep last night, and I looked over at him sleeping and smiled and thanked GOd once again for not letting me lose this wonderful man.