Hi here some encouragement for standers: neighbors H came back to live after 1.5 years os seperation he is older around 60 or so but he was gone and living in another state..she said it was over..he mentioned to her at thanksgiving how he misses this and came home a few weeks ago
my XH told the kids he wants to see them more, so he will be coming over earlier on saturdays to spend a few extra hours I thought that was hopeful at least for the kids since XH has been very angry and distant to bothe me and kids since divorce got a little messy so hes over it thats good and I took care of myself and kids during D i didnt budge and got everything we as a family deserve xH on the other hand got what he probably deserved tp His 28 yr old GF and his freedom I have to work on forgiveness
I let my new friend GO.. He was fun and we still dance together but he is not right for me even though the ATTRACTION to him was intense that is so weird and a lesson for our us as well as our WAS/MLCers dont let the attraction get control over your senses I feel empowered that I let him go//I prayed hard for this and God lifted it at least for today
peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow