h is so up and down mood wise, and 99% of it has to do with our new business. but it is not fair to take it all out on me.
its not fair that he chooses to sleep on the couch now, nothing went wrong between us.
he had no problem climbing into bed with me over these last few years, no problem when he first came home. he just stopped coming to bed over a week ago.
then, last night, on mothers day, he had a bad day at the store so he didnt want to go out for dinner, he said he was going out for a little and was gone until almost 1 in the morning. i called him at 9, 10 and 12, and he answered every time, so i do not think he went to find the ow. he said he was just out driving around, and he was definitely in the car.
i told him it is not fair to go out like that, dissapear and not respect how i may feel about it.
then he came home, made himself dinner and left all of the dishes in the sink.
i told him this morning that i will not do them, that if he chooses to treat me like a roomate, he can do his part as a roomate.
i just dont know what to do. i tell him my feelings are hurt, i tell him i deserve respect. and it just doesnt get through.
what do i do now?
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09