The comment about the honeymoon, she is just lashing out. My W has said a couple of mean thiongs but only because she isn't getting her way now. Continue to play it cool and stick to your plan. It may be a mess but if there is a will, there is a way.
Now you know she really missed out on that honeymoon. Let's say she comes back, the citizenship gets taken care of, you guys work on each other...who knows. Things work out, you renew your vows and you take that honeymoon. But first things first...right?
I have to disagree on the movie my friend, they opened up a whole new timeline in true ST fashion. I thought it was pretty good, other then some of the actors were a little over the top. But the young kirk was perfect. I couldnt help but think of Siler from Heroes when i looked at spock. Were there any fanatics at your show dressed in trek drag?
hope all is well PD.
mlb
Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.
jag: I agree about the honeymoon idea. I have mused to my MIL over the last few months that W and I should do something like that when/if we get things pieced together. It's still on my radar screen.
mlb: I wasn't so much disappointed with the whole new ST timeline as I was with the nature of the resolution of the main conflict in the movie. A few things just didn't add up and I felt there were more than a few plot holes. Still, it was a good, action-packed ride... just was hoping for a bit more internal consistency and believability.
Wolverine, OTOH: Awesome! No two-ways about it. Good back-story, action, and familiar characters. Perhaps a tad bit predictable, but that is just picking nits.
Anyhoo, journal time and breaking news.
Tried calling the W today multiple times; no answer. Tried calling MIL, also no answer. Left voice mail, sent texts, nada. Well, so much for a nice Mother's Day greeting and chance for W to talk to the kids, I thought. Then about 4pm, MIL calls: W is in the hospital. All day yesterday she had stomach pains and then today she started getting horrible cramps and swelling under her arm. She was so stubborn that she ignored MILs advice to go to hospital; instead went back to her apartment and layed done. Woke up about an hour later unable to get up and had to call an ambulance.
After admittance the doctors determined that she has a severe colon infection, but they aren't sure what kind. They are giving her intravenous antibiotics and purging her. She isn't allowed to have a cell-phone, so she has only called once from her room. I am waiting for her to get back to her room so I can talk to her again.
This is the absolute worst. I'm contemplating taking a flight tomorrow or Tuesday to Frankfurt to see her, but I don't know what the heck is going on. My S17 could watch my two younger ones for a week, but I don't know what good it would do for me to be at her bedside. If I thought that she would want me there, I'd be there in a heartbeat. Damnit! She sounds so pathetic and helpless and in pain on the phone. She is alone and scared in the hospital right now: the woman I vowed to love and cherish, in sickness, and I can't help her!
Ugh.
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I feel your pain, as angry and upset as i am. Those vows still ring clearly in my head. I would want to hop that flight too, that would definatly be taking action. I hope your W is well PD, god bless with whatever you decide to do.
MLB
Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.
