Thanks for that insight K.So not only does H offload the blame on to me for his anger, he`s dumping the guilt onto me too. Makes sense of why he`s behaving like he is.I`d hate him to be dealing with tremendous anxiety too. Guess he is.

Didn`t get back to him to validate but have been sweet and light around him despite his latest little outburst. It might help.

Thanks very much for that advice.BTW not Mother`s Day here but hope you enjoyed yours!