Livin, I know what you mean. My xh left and his best friend and his wife along with others tried to talk to him and tell him not to throw away 20 years but he wouldnt listen. A few months later the same best friend left his wife of 25 years! My xh trashed him for it, said he was making a huge mistake and everything. It was actually comicial. Everyone was like, what do you mean, you did the same thing. My xh would say no I didnt, I didnt cheat before I moved out.lol I dont believe this, but if he didnt, he still cheated before divorce. It's funny how they rationalize what they do. It really is. Of course though, xh's boss is the one that got left. She was married to xh's best friend. Is it contagious or what?
