Renee, The things he's saying will come home to bite him at some point. He's bragging about his conquests to the younger guys because he wants them to think he's still got it. As for what he's says about you to others....it's to justify why he's doing what he's doing. What should you do? Ignore the gossip. People who bring you gossip are going to take gossip right back to him. They want to see what your reaction will be to what they are telling you because they are drama kings and queens. The best way to diffuse such gossip is not to react and/or comment on it. The less you react, the less likely you will hear about it again. Diffuse the siuation by telling the other person, "thank you for being concerned, but I really do not want to hear about it". Stop fueling the fire of the gossips.
Why feels sorry for him? He's the one that has put himself in this position. He knows exactly what he's doing.
Hold your head up high, back straight and continue moving forward. This is your special day, put him and his young chic in the closet and do not bring them out again today.
Thanks Snodderly, you can always make me feel better. They were saying a lady would walk in the gym and someone would say something about her and my xh would say, "been there done that". lol Also he was telling them he had to fight someone for looking at his gf's xxxx (low cut shirt), he said the cops came and everything. blah blah blah. Why is he trying to be so muncho? I knew he could bull crap but geez. Do they really show off their new women like that. Are they trying to get everyone to envy them? Maybe to prove to theirselves they made the right choice?
