Something else that bothers me and I cant help it, is my xh has been bragging about all the girls he has went out with. Some people say he is crazy. They say he brags about everyone and claims to have had many women. I wonder if ow knows this?
well he doesnt have much respect for his fiance(sp) either...sorry Reneee shes not an OW. In fact that jerk doesnt have much respect for women in general i would say. why on earth do you want to be friends with a jerk like that?
Your son is 18 and young man able to make his way in life. and his own choices. you use him as a crutch to stay in touch with your xh.
What about your nephew? How is he dealing . you have custody of him ? both of you before the divorce? Is there support involved? I would be more worried about providing for him than your son.
how do you deal with his blather? You take the high road and say nothing back...let him look like the fool. it will all catch up for him
why have you not looked into counseling yet or met with your pastor or looked into local mental health agency. There is help avalailable to you if you get off your duff and look. you spend your time re-posing the same question here and looking for some assurance your xh will be back. No one here really knows BUT the odds strongly suggest he wont.
I have a habit of saying ow and its easier to type. I want to be friends because of our family. I want to go on with life but get along with him. I cant bad mouth him to son.
I dont use my son as a crutch to stay in touch. My son talks to his dad many times a day sometimes. They have Nextel 2-way phones, so its easy. They talk back in forth. My son usually goes outside or he is in his room with the door shut and locked. (He keeps it locked so no one can bother him). I never ever tell him to call his dad anymore, not in a long time that I can remember.
I did not get custody of my nephew until the divorce was final. He came when xh was already gone. We dont talk about xh around him much. He is well taken care of. My aunt helps out with him alot and they make sure he is provided for. Which helps ALOT. She is a blessing. I figured everyone would say take the high road and say nothing, which I agree. It just hurts to hear people say he is talking about how crazy I acted in the beginning. I did act crazy, so maybe I deserve it. I just wish he could let that go. I guess its the only thing he can find bad about me.lol Really, he cant think of nothing else. He tells the same story to everybody. He knows he did wrong because he is worried about what other people think appartently. Do you all agree?
Also, how can you say it is unlikey when you are in piecing?
