Something else to be surprised about. Although I dont know why I am still not expecting anything to happen. Yesterday my xh told my son he bought his ow a new puppy for mothers day. This would not be a big deal except my xh NEVER like animals, especially in the house. He has changed soooooo much. This just proves how much he is crazy about her I guess. Why do they go ALL OUT for ow? I know, more questions, sorry I was just thinking out loud.
Also I found out that my xh has been talking about me to other people. Saying things like, I am crazy and he had to get an protection order against me. Why cant he just let it go. I am in know way bothering him. How can I stop all the gossip and rumors he is spreading? What would you all do? I have stopped all the craziness but he is still bringing it up to people. How do I address this?
Also he has been bragging about ow, how she looks and so forth. He is showing her off like a trophy. Do they do this? I know that you all have told me not to listen to what anyone has to say about him, but we live in a small town where gossip is stirred. My xh and I are well known, therefore people talk. Obviously I cant shut up everybody I come across.
Something else that bothers me and I cant help it, is my xh has been bragging about all the girls he has went out with. Some people say he is crazy. They say he brags about everyone and claims to have had many women. I wonder if ow knows this? This is a side of him I would have never expected. Why would he say these things knowing it would get back to me? Guys this is not the h I knew. It's like he is trying to be all big for others. Like he is trying to prove something. Crazy! He is saying this stuff to some YOUNG guys that work out at the gym with him. They tell me, I dont even have to ask. They laugh behind is back. I sorta feel sorry for him. People are making fun of him.
Renee, you can feel sorry for him if you want to! LOL IMO, he gets EXACTLY what he deserves! Of course he is going to brag, show-off, etc. about the "new young OW" He is going to "brag" about all of his conquests! LOL Didn't you know that he is a stallion and no matter what his age is, he is the man? LOL Renee, its all part of the same thing. I am quite certain that people are laughing at him and making fun of him. Guess what, even if everyone told him about it, its not going to change a thing. When they come into where you work, they are just doing that to try to provoke you, don't take the bait. Renee, what county do you live in? I'm in Pike.
BraveHeart I live in Laurel Co. I dont think my xh would be trying to provoke me but his new woman would. XH always got mad and sometimes threaten to bring his ow in, but he never did. The were on the other side of the store and not in my dept. BUT when I go on break I could run into them and he knows that. Also, I help out in other depts. and he knows that, unless he forgot and I dont think he did. Bottom line is, he cant control her, he will do what she wants. She has always gotten her way from what I know, especially since the accident of her son. Her mom tries to make up for it. My xh is trying to please her in any way he can, like buying her the dog. I shouldnt feel sorry for him, but I do. I think his judgement is blinded right now. I could be wrong. I feel like he has given up everything he loves, especially fishing. Remember me saying when we went to court for the epo he stood outside and talked to me and volunteerly told me she was already complaining about him going fishing and he said he told her that she knew that when they started dating? Well I think he probably told the truth EXCEPT for what he said back to her.
