looks like desperation on His part trying to hold a R together maybe the cruise will do it..for the moment anyway but if he loses the OW..what does he have left after all of this? that in itself must be a bottom peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
It just seems so desperate on his part. I can't help but feel so bad for the man he has become.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Trusting, It just has to play itself out. The cruise is not going to fix anything. It may make things nice for a little while.
It is good that you're able to have some empathy for him.
I feel as if you have some insights into your H/OW situation that I do not have. I would have more hope if I had the sense that the relationship is not all rainbows and sunshine. I got some of that sense when I saw H's apartment, but I also see him fawning over her. I don't have the sense that the blush is really off the rose. But who knows. I don't have enough contact to really have a sense any more.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D
Mine just wears his emotions on his sleeve, he always has.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
First time in 3 years he has acknowledged any day to me.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Trusting, Your ex is waking up just a little bit. When they begin recognizes special holidays, etc., it's a milestone in mlc time. I'm glad you texted him back. He may very well go back into the dark pit now for a while.
Happy Mother's Day!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Ex was texting me back and forth all day yesterday about kid stuff. It was very weird..... Most of the stuff he was saying had already been communicated by my daughter.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
