This is my weekend to have the kids and I offered my wife to have the kids for Mother's Day and she declined. I sent her a text this morning wishing her a Happy Mother's Day. No response. She wants absolutely nothing to do with me. Some days it's discouraging.
I think it's guilt, but who knows for sure. Mine was only going to take them for four hours at first. I kept offering the day and night. She kept them until 7pm. When offered the whole night she said the court handbook says until 8pm. I didn't argue, I'll take them anytime I can.
If yours is anything like mine they become very selfconcious about parenting and being a good mother.