Praying and Living

[Holly06]

I have a bit of an update as well.

TJ's other woman is gone. His sister updated me a little.
TJ says that this is the end with her. When asked if he will be going to HOuston, he said he has no plans to, but he has learned to never say never. He said this move was a transition to the end.

TJ sent me a text 1 1/2 weeks ago. Haven't had a text in 9 months, we have communicated by email, on a have to basis.

He included me in a text that he sent the girls regarding his mom. She has been put on hospice care, and time is short. Her lungs are not able to handle the pneumonia that she is suffering from. She is so frail.

I arranged to have a dr. appt on Tuesday, and took the pm to drive 3 hours to see her. She knew I was coming, as I have had increased contact with his sister lately.
I am blessed to be able to say that she is still praying for us.
I had a nice visit, and went to see headstone for FIL too. That was a nice added bonus.

TJ went to see D in Charlotte this weekend. To my knowledge, this is the first time he has been to their home. I can tell he is trying to keep busy.

I got a text again today. First holiday greeting since my bd in July. He wished me a happy mother's day and our mother-to-be is doing well and showing!
He text me the minute he got free of SIL and D at the airport.


I think this is real progress.

I have responded both time, thanking him.
In 6 days I will see him for the first time in over a year.
I got a killer dress......
Just a little nervous.

I know the drill, hope for the best but zero expectations.....