I'm sorry that your H has once again "flaked" on you. Perhaps you'll find that this is all part of "the process"? .. Things moving in an up AND down direction, until you both get "there"?
I haven't been on much lately so wasn't here to respond sooner.
Am hoping that things may be going better for you and that your H is seeing things clearer now.
Take a lot of deep breaths now .. AND take one day at a time ..
Take care, rustie
Just saw that you posted on my thread. (Hadn't seen that before.) Happy Mother's Day to you too!! Hope you're having a peaceful day.