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Though, of course you have things to recognize about what could have been better in the marriage and what you could have improved.


Believe me, I think about this on a daily basis and pray for the opportunity to have a better marriage if the opportunity arises.

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She is wound up in getting validation through sexual attention, and I doubt that she is easily going to find ONE man to feed her addiction. The fact that the OM might cheat on her makes it that much more satisfying when he comes around to your W... "Oh, he can have 10 girls, but he still wants ME."


This makes sense as she has slept w/ 4 men(that's all she admits to) in 7 months. And she likes it! She likes the fact that she can sleep w/ as many men as she wants!

I'm still laughing about your comment the other day about your doubts that my wife has a "golden" vagina. LMAO!!! I'm sure she thinks she does at this point. I pray that she comes crashing down hard soon. I think she may as I should find out tomorrow night the name of the OM. Once I do, I'm probably going to report them both. In the military, since it's illegal for officers and enlisted to have any kind of unprofessional relationships at the very least, they should be given a "no contact" order which means they are forbidden to speak to on another or do anything together. If they are seen conversing or whatever they do, they could be charged accordingly and given severe punishments. Will my wife hate me at this point? Probably. But at least the affair will be exposed and it will be closer to being over. We'll see.


M-41
ex-W-40
Together--17 years
SS-20
D-14
Bomb--2 Feb 09
WAW--6 Feb 09
Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!!
ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!!
Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!