Hey Grace, I trained as an astrologer! And because I have read astrology text books since I was about 10. Don't ask me to explain it though...
I have been sound editing all night, sound files for the pitch of certain planets (so say). Combined together, they sound like some kind of ray gun, I feel like I am in a 1950s B movie !!
Ali, I was saying anything negative about your x, I know nothing of him except what you post. As I have said before we are all attracted to different people which is just as well. Ali, I was with my H since I was 5years old, as playmates, then courting, then married for 30 years, do you not think I thought he was my soulmate? many many people think that they will always be friends no matter what, my x even said that. After 45years as friends/spouse you have a huge amount of history.Celebration, deaths of family,parents, friends,even a child and of course beloved pets.You have your joys and sorrows. You go through illnesses together,you bring children into this world and you go through all that raising children together entails.I have no idea where my venus was, but I do know that nothing is written in stone. We can wish and dream and know all we want but sometimes it just does not happen. Your x may choose to get back with Helen, even if they have the wrong star signs, he may move on to someone new and never look back. He may come back to you and after a couple of years go awol again. The only certainty is that there is no certainty. You have no children together and if you had you would feel a whole lot differently believe me. No mother will view her friend, partner,husband in the same light IF he hurts her children/their children. I really hope your x comes back and if he doesn't then I hope you can remain friends. Life isn't always black and white, nor is it written in the stars,you have alot of living yet to do and with it comes acceptance that all things change.
I am ok really. I am accepting. I dont think he will get back together with Helen, no. And I have never posted about their compatibility, because I dont know her "star sign". I do think we will be friends, because I forgive him and I can be his friend and at this point in our history, I'd like to stay friends at least.
I dont know if he will come back, stay with me forever, or me with him either. Its too hypothetical. I said all along, I just want a 2nd chance.. after that, our R will have no better or worse odds than any other random man I could meet and choose to date. But some peoople have to make up that 5-10% hey.
Naej, I'm sorry your H hurt you so badly after 45 years, thats awful. "We can wish and dream and know all we want but sometimes it just does not happen." ..but this sounds like "your" stuff. Not mine.
Yes Ali, my H hurt me more than words can ever express but in true DB style I have forgiven him and know we can only control ourselves. I am afraid that
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"We can wish and dream and know all we want but sometimes it just does not happen." ..but this sounds like "your" stuff. Not mine.
this is not just "my" stuff but the reality of us all.That's not to say dreams never happen.
So.. my ex just phoned me for a Sunday afternoon chat! Hour and 10 mins. He was warm and sweet and sounds more relaxed, sounds like he has got away from her and I imagine he is starting to feel relieved about that. He volunteered what he had been up to, with whom for Friday night, Saturday, Saturday night, this morning, his plans for this evening. He admitted he went out in the village Friday night with MF's but "wasnt really in a good mood" but they took him out for a drink.. so I am guessing he didnt see Helen again after dumping her Thursday! It felt like he was trying to let me know he had a "male only" weekend.
He was very supportive about my art. I noticed he sounded calmer, warmer and less moaney. We dont seem to have plans to meet up as yet, but he knows I am super busy. He said, I better let you go.. get back to your sound editing. So all round, it was a nice conversation.
Hey girls!.. K do you know why end of May is so significant? For all of us, but PARTICULARLY Pisceans? Because..the two ruling planets of Pisces, Jupiter and Neptune are about to make a powerful conjunction.. happens only every 13 years and it will also conjunct Chiron, planet of healing..building now (so already a sense of good things on the horizon) but will be exact on.. 27th May! Do you read Penny Thornton? I love her weeklies and "your" lady, Terry Nazon...
11th May 2009 - 17th May 2009 Saturn's passage through the relationship zone is both a blessing and a curse – a blessing in that you learn much about your capacity for love and loyalty and a curse because partnerships can be the source of some considerable heartache. If, during the last few months, there has been a physical or emotional distance between you and a partner, matters are about to resolve themselves. This might entail a tearful reunion and a renewal of your commitment or it could mean that you are ready to move on in separate directions. Whatever the understandings and developments of the week ahead, you won't go wrong with love in your heart and your integrity in tact.
