Something else that bothers me and I cant help it, is my xh has been bragging about all the girls he has went out with. Some people say he is crazy. They say he brags about everyone and claims to have had many women. I wonder if ow knows this?
well he doesnt have much respect for his fiance(sp) either...sorry Reneee shes not an OW. In fact that jerk doesnt have much respect for women in general i would say. why on earth do you want to be friends with a jerk like that?
Your son is 18 and young man able to make his way in life. and his own choices. you use him as a crutch to stay in touch with your xh.
What about your nephew? How is he dealing . you have custody of him ? both of you before the divorce? Is there support involved? I would be more worried about providing for him than your son.
how do you deal with his blather? You take the high road and say nothing back...let him look like the fool. it will all catch up for him
why have you not looked into counseling yet or met with your pastor or looked into local mental health agency. There is help avalailable to you if you get off your duff and look. you spend your time re-posing the same question here and looking for some assurance your xh will be back. No one here really knows BUT the odds strongly suggest he wont.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
