My wife is bringing the children over later so that I can give them dinner. She clearly has an ulterier motive as she said she would drop them off and pick them up. This means she is probably off to see the OP and is so such selfish this is the only way she can see him. To prove my point I bet right now when she turns up she will be smart casual, in a hurry and will not be wearing her weeding rings. I cannot guarantee this but its a hunch.
I know I have been told many times not to concern myself about what she is doing. The thing is,she is making me look an idiot and it is starting to annoy me. Do I just ignore what is going on, play dumb and just concerntrate on me and the children, or do I confront her (without any proof)and ask her again outright?
We have had one week where there has been no confrontation and reasonable communication. I just feel so frustrated with this sitch, particularly as I know patience is not my forte. Should I continue DR, GAL, 180's etc, or try and force the issue and try and get her to admit to whatever is going on?
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years