I hope you are well. In your sitch it looks like you are coming to a point where you have to make a crucial decision.
Knowing you, you will make the right decision based on what is best for you and your children. Far be it from me to think I could offer anything like the support and help you have given to me, but I presume you hope if you do make that decision to move then hopefully it might wake you H up and start to realise what he is going to miss.
gucciloafer kindly started a new string for me in Newcomers as I wanted to get some advice on dropping the rope to help me to detach. Like the differing opinions and advice you have received I am slightly confused as to how to detach. I am working to the anticipation strategy to the best of my ability, but the advice on trying to detach from my wife has been very different, particularly if she is in MLC which appears to have a different strategy completely.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
