Yes I am hanging onto that date plus a few others more, you see I've tried the "lets move forwards together and all the bad things from the past will fade away", well it hasn't quite worked out that way for us. So the other option is to talk out the bad things, well I think we are heading that way.
Fb2,
I used to be afraid of all that R talk cos I was very much afraid of losing any progress I had made. Plus at that time the DB mantra is to avoid R talk. I didn't want any heavy talk at dinner the other night cos we had D7 with us and I just wanted to keep that evening lighearted. But I think the point that W and I are at now, R talk is essential, and that big white elephant in the corner of the room has to acknowledged and spoken about.
