Wow Sara, that's an idea!!! Girls, fb2, he told me he was coming over with his nephew while I was in the car, leaning in from the window, with both kids watching us in the back seat. If I said anything about not wanting his nephew to come over, my kids wouldnt get it. He is their favourite cousin.
Also, talking would have to be arranged at another time, NOT during his time with the kids. I was upset he used the kids in a way I couldnt respond regrading him coming over. This weekend was again arranged according to his work schedule. I had to drive across the city to take the kids back after they had been only for 4 hours with him and today, we'll be stuck in the house cause he doesnt really like going outside with the kids.
Also, I really dont enjoy being in a house with him when we dont talk, or interact in any way. Too much damage done and I am tired, cant deal with it.
I dont know how people do it and reconcile after years of separation. I guess, in my case the fact is that H said he wanted back but didnt really mean it.
Happy mother's day!! My kids made me cry this morning. They are so sweet. Cant believe I am so important to them... Weird. I have kids. How did I do that? I feel a kid myself sometimes. They are my life. K
Weird. I have kids. How did I do that? I feel a kid myself sometimes. They are my life.
