You can only do your best and that's it. Arguing won't change the reality of the situation. Just listen to her, nod your head and say things like, "I hear you." (which is not agreeing or disagreeing). Then later you do what you can do, and what is best for you and your children, and that's it.
Remember, no relationship talk with your wife. That's pointless right now.
I cannot believe your D only took 2 months!!! That's ridiculous! Is it finalized?
Hang in there. You will be okay. Just focus and take care of YOU.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
