I so agree with Ali. Men surprisingly aren't any better at reading minds than we are. We think they should know how we feel, why we are angry but if we don't seem to do very well about explaining it. I used to get mad that ex wouldn't just help me with family dinners. I would angrily ask him to do something, after 19 years, he didn't get it. Maybe I would have had better luck reminding him a day or two before I got crazy, that I would be needing his help doing x,y,z. Problem solved. I never really got there before the marriage ended.

Please don't get upset but take a moment and step back and think about it. Even if this doesn't make a difference in the marriage, it may make a difference in how you treat each other as time goes on.

Happy Mother's Day! \:\)

kat

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