I understand why you want to contact Ow's H. I don't see it as helpful. First off, rationaliztions are better than sex, and I think there may be just a smidge of rationalizing about "not wanting him to be where you are". Not that that isn't altruistic, I know myself well enough to know that it would really be about me and wanting to throw a monkey wrench into his sitch (or at his head as the case may be) with her. That "maybe if she's gone he'll wake up and realize what he has". Doesn't seem to happen that way. Sorry. Perhaps there is someone out there this worked for.
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he pursues it vigilantly and usually gets what he wants.
Usually is the operative word here. Sometimes we all need to be careful what we wish for...we just might get it.
If her H truly dosn't know, he will find out at some point if all this continues. His response is his at that point. If you were already friends with him my response might be different, but even then coming from you, don't think it's a good idea.
I think this has much more potential of blowing up in your face than a bottle of nitro on a fast moving snowboard.
Just my two cents. Been known to be wrong a time or two.
