Well some will say don't do it. While I know of a few others who are for exposing the affair when the op is married. If it truly is mlc then I doubt this will bring it to an end, end meaning the mlc. Sit quietly and think of all the positives and negatives that could possibly come of this. Be honest with yourself as to your motives behind all of this too.
Whatever you decide, I would keep in mind that mlc is a process that must run it's course. I do understand feeling for the op spouse who obviously will be or is already going through what you are.
