Forgot to mention when he told me to tell the kids that we aren't going to get married tomorrow (Sunday), I said, "Fine, I will tell them that. But I bet Nathan will just ask, 'Then when will you get married again?' "(b/c he is stubborn like his mom)
Dan got pissed about my response. "Fine, tell them whatever you want. You asked me what I would do, I told you, (say 'not tomorrow') and that wasn't good enough. The past two years you ask me for advice and you never take it. Nothing changes."
So I guess he is back on the "nothing changes" song and dance number. Grr.
I gotta just stop all convos unless about the kids. Although, this one was about the kids. They keep peppering me with thoughts/hopes/questions and NOT asking anything of Dan. So frustrating. But then, they know I want us together so I am sure they are safer sharing stuff with me.
Part of me wants to sit Nathan down and tell him Mommy and Daddy will not be getting back together, he can still wish/pray/dream, but it isn't going to happen. But if I did that without telling Dan I am sure he would be pissed.
