Hi Kassie,

Great to hear from you again. It seems your H is pursuing you big time and then, like you said, flakes out - "Run away, run away!" (Monty Python)

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but I can't help but feel abandoned and dissappointed - I didn't get M to live apart and have to work so hard at this age.

I agree. Way too much work. Maybe you two are talking way too much and working way too hard. I know this sounds simplistic but can you just do fun things together for awhile? No R talk, no "work"?


Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10