No I understand, I meant he has been MAINLY depressed over the past two years, not before.
Basically, he's a lovely guy, my soulmate and my choice. I am happy with my choice, rightly or wrongly and I am aware he is flawed. But then, arent we all hey!
Sorry, I guess because you post here, I thought you may still looking for some kind of sense from it and I wondered if you were able to get that from him. He may have something different to tell you.. it must be some years since the D and you get a different perspective down the years, or with the benefit of hindsight.
I was thinking about my ex, no matter what happens now, I am sure we would stay friends, but then I have Venus in Aquarius, so thats pretty textbook (Venus rules love/relating, Aquarius rules friendship/groups.. put em together and you get a person who prefers partners who are also their friend and to stay friends once they are no longer partners)
