Today my xh and ow came into my place of work. He has been doing this lately. It bothers me but I havent said anything. I really wish he would respect me more than that but he doesnt. Someone mentioned to me to get a restraining order against him so he could not do this. I dont want to have to do that because I am opening up a bad can of worms when I do. At the same time, I dont want to look at them, I am NOT READY to look at them as a couple. What should I do? Should I just suck it up and smile? I really dont know how to deal with this. Please, I need your advice.