Let me ask you this.. You said you hope that he contacts you and wants to be friends. Would you "pick" a friend that behaved like your xh does? I doubt it. Keep moving along, girl.
SoConfused, I cant imagine, right now, not ever being able to communicate with him. I am thinking of my son mostly. I dont want his mom and dad to be strangers. I am better than that, I can fake whatever until it stops becoming fake. I will do this for my son. If that includes ow than so be it, I will NOT fight anymore. I tell my son all the time that I still love his dad and that his dad is a good man, its just something he has to go through. BUT I also tell him that it is wrong to committ adultry and he already knew that of course, but I felt the need to tell him. I want my son to know I am doing everything I can and did everything I can to save our family.
Guys today someone one was telling me that my xh has to have it his way and I told them he said "I was dead to him". Their advice was to treat him the same. If you are dead to him, then he is dead to you. What is your opinion on this?
