My total story is in the Divorce Remedy section under Never saw it coming. I am confused as to what she wants. She still calls me pet names. Her van acted up and since I have a mechanical ability have spent the last week saving her over $1000 fixing it. Anyway while I was working on it she made a comment about at least with me she knew we would have safe sex. She also made other sexual comments. She told me the other night that she has not closed the door on me yet. However I was served last week. She also told me that we could date even when were divorced and sometimes people get remarried. What in the world is going on with her??? I know what drove her away mostly my controlling behavior and I am extremely critical. She told me the other day that I have made a 180 in the past 6 weeks. I think she is having a MLC. Anyone??? She also agreed to a DB coach but asked me what I had hoped to accomplish. I kind of lost it at that point. It is not easy.