You know I was watching the trailer to Wolverine and daughter started looking over my shoulder. I glanced back and asked "you want to go see this one with me?" I think the exact answer was "uh un...no way"
She is definitly a Old Yeller type movie goer.... except that one made me cry.
Let me know how it is... unless I beat you to it LOL!
Okay.... My life has just taken a significant down turn and I am not sure how I will make it through this....
The Vikings are talking about bringing in Brett Farve.....ARGH!
Do you know how bad it rocks a man's world when your team brings in a guy that you have been hating as the enemy for the last decade. Talk about betrayed..... and it's not the first time they have done this ...they did it with Jim McMahon..... I need to learn my lesson and stop loving this team LOL!
True football fans care more about tradition and principle than winning!!!!!!!!!!
Yep, I know what you mean. It took me probably two years to get over Mike Holmgren as coach of the Seahawks since I had just been living in SF for many years before I moved back to Seattle and he took over. Grr.
xBF is a hugh Packer fan so his coworkers are giving him grief over it. Personally I think Brett was washed up a few years ago but just doesn't have the balls to quit. Much as I disliked Elway (grew up AFC with the Seahawks) at least he knew how to go out on top.
And btw, not being a Bronco fan here is almost blasphemous. Whatever, I'm not nor ever shall be one.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
So just got back from daughters soccer game. Sat next to wife and another friend.
Don't understand the feelings that go through my head. I look at her and just think "you're just a woman that had and affair on your husband and tried to blame it all on him and you think it's okay and normal"
very unappealling.... but then when I leave there is some other feeling mixed in there... she talks to me a little during the game but doesn't say goodbye...just walks off, but then again so did I ....
Don't really understand it. Someone said it is bundled in that whole "rejection package of emotions". When does that go away and why is it bothering me.
I mean I drop my daughter off this morning an hour before the game, daughter has a birthday party to go to so we (daughter and I) went and got a present, wrapped it. all wife had to do was bring daughter to soccer and they make it there 2 minutes before the game and she says she has to go back because she was stressed out and forgot water bottle, hat and sunglasses...
Geeze you only had our daughter for on friggin hour and you're stressed out.
Don't really understand it. Someone said it is bundled in that whole "rejection package of emotions". When does that go away and why is it bothering me.
It bothered me because my confidence and self-esteem were rocked by her affair. Let's be honest, a cheating spouse hurts your pride. If it didn't, you didn't love her to begin with. We take pride in the things/people we love and care about. It hurts our pride when we are betrayed.
When does that go away? For me, it's when I finally realized that my ex no longer belonged on the pedestal I put her on when our M was in tact and before her affair. At one point, I considered myself the luckiest Man in the world to be married to her as I'm sure you might have felt.
It's when you realize she's human, makes mistakes, and that maybe after all these years together, you didn't know her as well as you thought. It's not so much a reflection on you, as it is on her individual choices. Those choices are not always made on sound reasoning but on more emotional levels. This is really where us LBH's beat ourselves to death trying to logically put our WAW's actions into rational context. Don't go there!
It stops 'bothering you' when you figure out you really don't have any control over a lot of things in life you thought you had control over. Her actions may have been partially your fault, but it takes two. Give her some responsibility, don't knock yourself so hard.
It stops 'bothering you' when despite her infidelity, you know that there are good and redeeming qualities about yourself that others do and will find attractive.
It stops 'bothering you' when you honestly don't care what she does, where she goes, or who she's with. That's the hardest stumbling block, but it does come to that over time.
It stops 'bothering you' when some young hottie half your age surprisingly and unexpectedly starts showing interest in you. Trust me, that happens and you don't have to look like Russell Crowe or have his bank roll for it to happen.
It stops 'bothering you' when you forgive her and yourself .
To add something from my own personal experience, I can tell you her response to you will be more positive when she realizes her actions no longer 'bother you'
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
