OK, I'll jump back in, seeing as thread hijacking isn't a problem with orangedog.
Originally Posted By: robx
What are you doing to get you where you need to be? Have you even started?
My story is laid out in depth on the first page of my first thread, but here is the readers digest condensed version.
My W decided to get an apartment in October 2008. At first, I agreed that we would shift back and forth to minimize impact on our kids, but at the last minute I just couldn't do it and told her I was staying in the house and she would be at the apartment, and the kids would stay at home. She threatened to go to court to have kids go back and forth, so I conceded that they could shift without any legal action.
For 3 months we did that, and then in January, I decided that it was in fact best for the kids to have one home, so I told W that we could do the shifting back and forth. I thought getting her back in the house, at least part of the time, was a pathway toward reconciliation. It's now been 4 1/2 months since the "nesting" and we are no closer to reconciliation, perhaps further apart.
I know I need to move back in to the home full time, but I'm hesitant to do it before kids are out of school, because I don't want to put them through yet another difficult transition right at the end of the school year.
But I hear you loud and clear rob, I am getting a hold of my N.U.T.S, and just making sure my next move is the best move not only for my M, but more importantly for my kids.
