- If I move, I don't know how I will get over this feeling that I "lost" on the house thing. Sure, if we get divorced I don't want the house or the payments, but in the shorter term I feel like she got her way on all of it. She wants sep but I have to move, and BFF gets to move in.
She did get her way and is getting her way. She wanted the separation and is getting it, She asked you to move out and is getting it, her bff is moving in and you have to move out of your home.
Do you notice any trend here? She is controlling you and the outcome of your life and she isn't worried about how this is impacting you, she is focused on improving her life at the expense of yours - this isn't usually something that somebody does because they love you.
Women don't like controlling men. In fact when a woman controls a man, she usually despises him and treats him poorly because of it.
Her being nice to you during this process is hiding her ulterior motive.
When a woman asks her husband to move out, it usually isn't to strengthen the bond between the two of you - it's the opposite. She wants you out of her life, the first part of that process is getting you out of the house. This is all standard WAW script.
