Re post to your thread on Monday morning as it will fall to page 2 or 3 and if you bump it... it willl bring it up to page one again.
If your counselor isnt' pro marraige don't go. Some counselor will counsel that a person should do what they need to do to make themselves happy at the demise of everyone around them.
My H has said the first counselor helped give him the push to walk out the door.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too