Can anyone please tell me why after 3.5yrs and all the crap my H has thrown my way why he is still able to make feel crap about myself? even worse he managed to do this w/o us even seeing each other or talking to one another.

I JUST WANT THIS OVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11

Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15