She just came over to get my D. I did my best to stay busy but she kept pursuing me asking me if I was alright. I said I'm fine. She said, is this how it's going to be--us being ugly to each other? I said, I haven't been ugly to you. She said well you're not talking to me. I said, I'm busy putting away laundry. She kept on making small talk and I just kept listening without saying anything really. I didn't ignore her, I just didn't say a whole lot. She then asked if I wanted to come over for dinner. I said I don't think that's a good idea but thanks anyway. She said it's not big deal, if you want to come over I can cook for you. I said that's ok. I then went to put some more laundry away in the bedroom and my D came and said goodbye. Next thing you know, the wife is in my bedroom asking me if I was ok and could she have a hug. I said, I don't want to hug you right now. She said ok, I'm not trying to hurt you. I said ok, it doesn't appear that you're being truthful on that. She started to tear up and left. Thank God! I just don't want to see her right now. That was very, very difficult for me to turn down that hug. I cannot believe I still have feelings for this woman after all she's done to me. She may be an attention addict but at this point I'm not going to give her any.


M-41
ex-W-40
Together--17 years
SS-20
D-14
Bomb--2 Feb 09
WAW--6 Feb 09
Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!!
ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!!
Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!