I read that and laughed out loud and then I stopped and started to question that perception of how I come off to others on this site. Do I appear as a woman hater?
Not at all.
You come across as a man who has truly found the essence of who he is, the man who was lost somewhere along the line in the course of his relationship. I applaud you rob, and hope that I get to the point where I have the strength of conviction and action that you have. I'm not there yet, but I'm a heck of a lot closer than I was in January when I first posted here.
It was a message to you as much as a reminder to myself that women want strong, decisive men, not wimpy wussy doormats.
What are you doing to get you where you need to be? Have you even started?
I read that quote that's part of you signature, the word "need" was in there.
You don't need anything, changing that signature would be another way to show that.
What are the real necessities of life? Food, water, air, etc.
If those are necessities, everything else is a preference. When you view these things as merely preferences, it's easy to live without them and it's actually easier to attain them as well. Needing anything is usually what prevents you from having it.
