One of these days I just may work up the gumption to follow his advice <sigh>
Today is a great day to start something new.
Don't wait for gumption to go on sale at the local store, gumption costs a lot of money but you get what you pay for. LOL!
Work up the gumption today.
What does it take for a man to change?
Time? Maybe but time alone won't change you.
Taking action and having a mindset that you believe you deserve and will have better things in life - these things would serve you better.
I didn't have any of these resources, this website, other websites or books when I started this journey. I definitely didn't have someone from across the internet telling me to do better and looking back, I wish I had someone who stood up, gave me a good shake and a kick in the a$$ to wake me up from my wimp/wuss life and screamed at me to become a man.
I'm not going to give you hug and a shoulder to cry on and lie to you and tell you that things are going to get better.
The only thing that is going to make your life better is YOU, you have to wake up, you have to do the work, you have to want better things, you have to believe that you deserve and will have better things (and that may or may not include getting your wife & marriage back).
If you need something else to convince you, think about this. Everything you have currently done has not yielded the results you have ultimately been wanting. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over & over again and expecting different results. If you really want different results in your own life, you have to be willing to do things differently.
So now that we know we have to do things much differently, the only question left remaining is when do you start?
