"Robx's A$$ Kicking Man-Up Forum for Wimpy Wussy Men Who are Being Treated as Doormats"
I know I would be a charter member.
One of these days I just may work up the gumption to follow his advice <sigh>
I read that and laughed out loud and then I stopped and started to question that perception of how I come off to others on this site. Do I appear as a woman hater? I hope not, the opposite would be true, I love women. If I hate anything, I hate the man that I became: weak, ineffectual, insecure, needy, clingy, needing more love and not understanding why my wife was pulling away and not attracted to me anymore, and as I tried to force her to be closer she pushed me away even more (push/pull theory) feeling powerless, etc. (does any of this sound familiar to you?)
I'm loving the man that I am now and continue to become: evolving continually, continuous improvement, not settling for the status quo, pushing forward, discovering more of my unrealized, untapped potential that's been inside me for so long.
It's just now that I have more than a few clues as to how this game plays and what attracts women, I know all the mistakes I made and it just appears that the way I acted & became is common of most men in the same situation.
I was a wimp, I was a wuss, I let my wife control me & treat me poorly, I was a human doormat.
Read all of it, it's past tense.
I'm none of those things now and I will never be those things again, I enjoy my life too much now to go back to being sad, depressed, lonely and wondering why my wife didn't love me anymore and why someone who loved me would treat me so poorly.
Sexual polarity, once you realize what it's about and how it works, you get an insight into a world that you previously didn't have any knowledge of.
This has more implications than getting your wife back or your gf back, it gives you an idea on how intimate relationships start, how attraction is very important, what things create attraction, what things kill attraction, etc.
Let's get this straight, I'm not reconciled with my wife. However on recent occasions she has dropped hints on wanting to get back together and moving back home with me and trying again. She invites me out for coffee, she takes me out for dinner. In the past few months, I have had more sex with her than when I was married (literally) and it's been REALLY GOOD sex, the kind that I always wanted but maybe felt I didn't deserve or wasn't the kind of man that could have that kind of sex. I don't think any of these reactions from her to me would have been possible if I hadn't become the man I always needed & wanted to be.
